Welcome to Freedom Shaper Your Community Trade School
SOUTH AFRICA (KZN)

Striving for a Better South Africa
Community Leadership Training and Coaching
Below are just a few of the Course types and modules that we will cover.
Business Training
- Business Analysis
- Management
- Project Management
- MS Project
- Community Leadership
- Time Management
- Time Management using Outlook
- Financials
- Basic accounting
- Budgets
- Goal Setting
Technical Training
- Introduction to Networking (IP Addressing)
- Microsoft 365 (in person)
- SharePoint
- CompTIA (in person)
- IT Fundamentals
- A+
- Network +
- Server+
- Security+
End User Training
- Microsoft Office
- Word
- Excel
- PowerPoint
- Outlook
- Power BI Desktop
- Desktop Applications
- Time Management Using Outlook
- Home budgeting
The two most powerful warriors are Patience and Time.
The three C’s of life: Choices, Chances and Changes.
You must Choose to take a Chance, or your life can never Change.
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- The 5 rule
The 5×5 rule, a simple tool used to manage stress, worry, or overthinking.

The Core Concept
The rule states:
If a problem will not matter in 5 years, do not spend more than 5 minutes worrying about it.
How It Helps
- Creates Perspective: It forces you to look at a current stressor through a long-term lens.
- Stops Overthinking: It acts as a mental circuit breaker for minor, everyday frustrations.
- Saves Energy: It prevents you from wasting emotional energy on temporary inconveniences.
Real-World Examples
- Minor Inconveniences: Spilling coffee on your shirt, missing a green light, or a minor typo in an email will not matter in five years. Apply the rule and let it go.
- Major Life Events: A breakup, losing a job, or a health issue will likely matter in five years. The rule gives you permission to dedicate your time and energy to these larger issues.
- Desire
Desire carries a static charge, and this can either attract or repel the object of its desire.
The moment you stop needing something is usually the moment it shows up. Almost everyone has lived this at least once and then forgotten the lesson immediately afterward.
An example:
- you loose something and you hunt all over for it, eventually you go out and purchase a new one and then amazingly you find the lost one.
The wanting doesn’t just fail to attract what it’s after. It actively repels it, because need broadcasts scarcity, and scarcity is not an attractive frequency to anything.

Desire, in its ordinary form, carries a kind of static charge. It pushes outward, grasping, checking, waiting, and that pushing changes how a person shows up in the world. Someone who needs a relationship reads as needing one, in ways too subtle to name but too obvious to hide. Someone who needs a result grips it so tightly that the grip itself becomes the obstacle.
Letting go of desire doesn’t mean becoming passive or indifferent. It means removing the grasping quality from wanting, so that a person can still move toward what they care about without the desperate undertone that makes most pursuit exhausting for everyone involved, including the one doing the pursuing.
This is a completely different posture. It is engaged without being needy, present without being attached to a particular outcome arriving on a particular schedule.
What replaces the grasping is spaciousness, and spaciousness is exactly the condition under which things tend to arrive. A full cup cannot receive anything poured into it.
A person whose life is already crowded with need has no actual room for what they are asking for, even if it showed up today. Emptying the grip is not a loss. It’s what makes the receiving physically possible.
Nothing arrives at the hand that won’t stop reaching for it.